James Freyr wrote:....Weight of molecules and compounds aren't directly the cause or reason something goes from liquid to vapor. For example, mercury is really quite a heavy molecule, it's adjacent to gold on the periodic table, but mercury will evaporate at room temperature. This is getting into areas of chemistry that I don't know about or really understand.
There's a decent discussion on the issue in a Wiki entry:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Volatility_(chemistry)
The mercury/gold example is a good one, James! I'm reasonably sure that basis for ethanol being more volatile (evaporating faster) than water at the same temperature is due to the hydrogen bonding between water molecules that does not occur to the same extent in pure ethanol. Thus even though water is a 'lighter' molecule based on its mass (molecular weight of ~18) as compared to ethanol (molecular weight of ~ 46), the attractive forces (and possibly other forces) between any two adjacent water molecules promotes the liquid as a whole of not evaporating as fast as ethanol, which has those forces but of smaller magnitude. (Similar forces are at work when, say, you pour cooking oil onto a pot of water and the droplets disperse.....for a while. Then you will notice that if the water remains cold, the droplets slowly re-group to form one larger oil-slick on top of the water. Part of the forces here are 'hydrophobic'....where the oil is resistant to blending with the water.... and 'lipophilic', where the oil molecules have a chemical affinity to be next to other lipid-based molecules.)
As Riley noted, this starts to get into deeper levels of chemistry like atomic forces and affinities, some of which remain theoretical. One of the most fascinating areas of biological chemistry to me is how two bioactive compounds can differ by only one element....a carbon here or a sulfur there....and the one compound can have astounding activity in an organism whereas the other nearly identical compound can have nearly zero impact on that organisms. This was seen clearly during the COVID epidemic when, in some cases, only a single amino acid in the long spike protein could render the SARS-CoV2 either more or less virulent or more or less immuno-evasive. If you imagine a string of pop-beads, the spike protein in SARS-CoV2 is 1,273 pop beads long. If only one of those beads becomes different than what was originally there...AND...changes the structure or function of the protein as a consequence, big changes can occur at the level of the biology.