I can understand the feelings you have and the effect it has on you.
I am a caring person but I am also cautious because of past experiences.
There are organisations such as Habit for Humanity in Australia that offer ' sweat equity ' programs.
The difficulty you have is that just appearing and asking for help immediately may not work.
Here are some organisations who may;
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https://www.adobeinaction.org/, a New Mexico-based 501c3 non-profit organization.
We support owner builders with the planning and construction of their adobe homes.
We promote adobe home building and ownership through education and student-based field support.
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https://www.habitat.org/where-we-build/mexico
We partner with low-income families by providing construction technical assistance, so they can build, improve or expand their homes while meeting the necessary safety, quality, and habitability conditions.
We also support the acquisition and financing of materials for self-construction.
At the same time, we develop and strengthen the capacities of families through workshops on healthy housing, family finances, and community organization.
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https://housingnm.org/about-mfa/housing-new-mexico
MFA is New Mexico’s leader in affordable housing. We provide innovative products, education and services to strengthen families and communities.
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