I agree with Emily, find a good realtor.
When I bought my house, I bought a spiral notebook and made a list of EVERYTHING I wanted. From there I decided how far I was willing to move and what areas were in my price range. After that I went looking online by myself on all the typical listing sites. That was only really valuable in figuring out how reasonable my "dream list" was.
Once I got a feel for the market I started doing drive-bys of places that seemed worthwhile. From that I learned that the pictures on the website are as good as it gets. Just like people's
facebook pictures, real life is VERY different. You'll also get a good idea of the area around the houses or land your looking at. VERY IMPORTANT
Then... get a realtor to listen carefully to what you want and then go find it for you. That's what they are paid for. Don't let them tell you that you're criteria for a "good home" are not ideal or realistic.
A good realtor won't waste your time taking you to places that aren't in your "comfort zone". But if you feel like you're not getting anywhere, switch realtors.
I had crap luck with the first two realtors I had looking for me. I was in rush by the time I found the right realtor and he got the job done in three days. He respected my time and listened to what I wanted (even though he thought I was nuts).
I feel like I got what I wanted and at the price I was comfortable with. Now I'm actually looking to upgrade to a bigger piece of property and a smaller house, so maybe in the spring you'll see a post with my Semi-permie landscape for sale.