A Coastal/Mountain Homestead, a B&B, and a Shared Dream — Searching for My Person (F, 33)

Hello!🌿 I’m a 33-year-old woman with a big dream and an open heart, looking for a male life partner to share in creating a homestead and a meaningful, adventurous life together. I have some freedom to relocate right now, and my dream is to find an old farmhouse or Victorian home near the East Coast or Appalachian Mountains to turn into a cozy bed and breakfast or antique shop, or both! I picture a warm, welcoming space where we can live simply, meet wonderful people, and enjoy the satisfaction of self-sustaining living.

While I’m fully capable of building this dream on my own, I’d much rather share it with someone so we can grow, laugh, and flourish together. Ideally, I’d love to find someone who’s handy and brings skills that complement my own. I’m nurturing, organized, and creative, and I love taking care of people and creating cozy, beautiful spaces. I prefer traditional roles, value genuine partnership, and hope to build a family someday.

A bit about me: I’m outgoing, funny, spontaneous, and warm, the kind of person who can strike up a conversation with anyone but also loves a quiet, cozy night in. Pretty, but not perfect. I adore being on or in the water, listening to live music, and traveling. My guilty pleasure is anything paranormal! I love the idea of being able to pause the B&B for a couple of weeks and go volunteer with elephants in Thailand, because life is exactly what you make it, and I want ours to be full of adventure and purpose. I’ve been looking at multi-family homes throughout the East Coast and Appalachian region that would make it easy to rent and essentially pay the mortgage/bills.

🧺Just to add, I’m not desperate to fit someone into this vision. I’m simply putting my feelers out to see if there’s someone whose dreams align with mine. I’d like my partner to be able to contribute equally, both emotionally and financially, because I’ve worked hard to bring my self-sustaining dreams to life, and I want my partner to feel that same sense of pride and value in what we build together.

I’m pretty easygoing when it comes to lifestyle. I don’t mind someone who enjoys a drink or smokes now and then, just not in excess. Definitely no hard drugs or addiction issues. And fair warning: I do have tattoos! It’s come up before on here for some reason, but I promise they don’t bite. 😄

If this vision speaks to you and you can see yourself in it, I’d truly love to hear from you! I’m happy to exchange photos as well ☺️🧵

Are you attached to the East Coast.? Are you open to tge Rocky mountain area?

John Clearwater wrote:Are you attached to the East Coast.? Are you open to tge Rocky mountain area?

I’m not dead set on any area, I’m open to ideas! I’ve just been in the south for a couple of years now, and I’m missing cooler weather. I like mountains, harbor towns, rivers, etc ☺️