I planted both also and was just lazy about labeling. I don't prune at all except for the lower leaves on the plants. Maybe if you let them get a bit bigger you will notice their growth habits more clearly. I have added stakes to all of mine when they were first put in and now I see I got some of the longer stakes at the shorter plants and vice versa.
I like using pencil also and lately have been trying/testing a 'Listo' marker, more like a crayon but meant for marking metals,etc. and seems to work well on my old window shade labels.
"We're all just walking each other home." -Ram Dass
"Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder."-Rumi
“When it is understood that one loses joy and happiness in the attempt to possess them, the essence of natural farming will be realized. The ultimate goal of farming is not the growing of crops, but the cultivation and perfection of human beings.”
― Masanobu Fukuoka, The One-Straw Revolution
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