posted 5 years ago
Well, what I experienced didn't come across as fear, didn't freeze up in that way. More like simple repugnance, aversion, refusenik time, I will NOT follow that order, thank you just the same. Donkey brain says NO. <g> Maybe stems from the same place? Wouldn't be my first bet, but possible. But remembering the woman who "couldn't" get her own laundry (wasn't even a family job) done - don't think that was fear.
Cheers,
Rufus