posted 9 years ago
Hello! I'm here! Olga, I'm sorry to hear about the troubles you've had! It's wonderful that you sound so cheerful and positive after it all. Spring has a way of doing that to the mood, doesn't it? Forget January 1st, those first few days that feel like spring are what really push the "re-set" button!!!
I've so far happily passed about 12 weeks here since early November. Took 3 weeks to travel back to Morocco to spend the holidays with my husband who was unable to take the time off work. And, he just finished spending almost three weeks here with me!
I've met great people, including a neighbor woman that I walk with a couple times per week, and a hiking group that I was graciously adopted by, that I go on full day randonnées with once per week, weather permitting. It permitted it a lot more before Christmas. Lots of rain and mud here now. Quite a few glorious days, too, but they haven't been lining up with the hike days lately.
My French has certainly improved, despite my laziness in the book-study department. Watching TV in the evenings has been a help. There are so many interesting shows on here, little travel documentaries and food shows...my main interests. And reading French magazines has been a great tool. Again, my main interests covered so well in the beautiful magazines here.
I never got around to going to a retirement home to make a friend, but now that I'm already starting the countdown to my departure date, I think that may have been for the best. I already feel sad enough thinking of losing the connections I have made with people who are still active and lively. If I had made friends with a lonely, home-bound elderly person, and had become a regular visitor, it would be sad to think of them missing that after I'd left. I'd miss it too, of course, but it would be more of a loss to them. (I hope this doesn't come across the wrong way)
With regards to coming to a conclusion on whether or not life in France is right for us, I've concluded that it's not. I LOVE FRANCE. However, it's mainly been a special vacation place before now. A place I yearn for throughout the year, and then relish while here for a couple weeks every year or two. I didn't like how France became normal, and everyday while I was here. I want to keep it special. Also, I came in the winter specifically to experience one out in the countryside here in the SW. My husband and I want to settle in a place with even less winter, even less than this mild year.
So, as I sit, looking out onto a rainy day, I am selfishly wishing for the sun to come back out so I can be outside more my last 4 weeks! So, "hello from France," becomes "Goodbye to France" for now. I wish you all a happy spring and upcoming growing season in this lovely place!