Hi Nate,
We're about an hour closer to Merida from where you are. There is another farm close to where you are.
We are a group of 4 adults and 2 children - many of the same questions were asked and some we have solutions for, and some not.
This probably flies in the face of all permaculture teaching (or perhaps not), but our land down here in the yucatan is very very different with the underground rivers, cenotes, dry tropics with a longer dry period and a short heavy rainy period. So, what I can suggest, is start small. Take a little piece, design, do and check. These specific forests here depend on their combination of trees, and when we opened an area right initially (we had to, because we could not see anything), we started running into this thing where 'bad trees' were removed and 'good trees' were left. Took us a while to get the message to sink, there are no bad trees .. the rare combination that grows here are dependent on one another. So, lots of strange beliefs and teachings down here.
From a design perspective it would be cool for us all to get together. We've decided to continue with Meliponas, just because they are so wonderful and the honey is so smooth. But again, to find the information and the knowledge is hard, as it is a skill that is dying out.
We are focused on community and building community whereas my neighbor down the road is more focused on volunteers and on eventually hosting visitors. So, the two of us work well together from that perspective. My neighbor is focused on self-sufficiency and we are more focused on growing for market. My neighbor tells me he has over 300 fruit trees in now and we have just over 100. Neighbor is focusing on original hardwoods whereas we are focusing on agave type planting .. (nopales, dragonfruit, and so on),
We don't see another haflway enough because we are just busy but hope to remedy that into the future and have more get-togethers. For that I've registered permacultureyucatan.com and will have a website up for us as a community if people want to list there. Just too much work to sit and build website.
So, our environment is unique, our forests are unique, our water situation is unique and our planting profile is unique. It is not easy to design for this environment. Good observation and small steps. Here is a tread that I've got going here on permies :
https://permies.com/t/40589/south-america-central-america-mexico/Longer-Term-Opportunity-Build-Life
And here are some questions about water :
https://permies.com/t/44260/south-america-central-america-mexico/Water-Management-Underground-Rivers
Anyway, good luck. Keep some of that tequila for some good neighbors!