As far as I can see, a bigger problem for you with the corn gluten may be the continual rain. When you apply it, according to Iowa State (who discovered this use for corn gluten in the first place) you need a period of dryness after the initial watering. The corn gluten keeps newly sprouted seeds from forming roots and they dehydrate and die before they can grow. Weeds have time to recover and form roots later if they're continually moist after germination.
As for the thatch development, if you're just starting to use organic methods, you may not have enough soil biology to keep up with the amount of clippings you're producing right now. I'm still of mixed mind about whether it would be best to rake up the clippings for a
compost pile or leave in place. In my region most perennial grass grows by runnners and rhizomes which would appreciate a thick mulch that shaded out weed seeds while they colonized the area. I don't know what kinds of grasses you grow in Maine. I've heard that cooler parts of the country prefer grasses with completely different growing habits.
I'm sorry to hear that the nematodes didn't help with your grubs. I use them for fire ant control and happily found that grubs were one of many pest species that they helped me with.