posted 15 years ago
I agree Joel and Al, excellent article. As a mother who has chosen a lot of alternative health care for her kids, I've questioned my choices a lot, and have been questioned and judged a lot.
The query that points me down different health care paths is: does the "cure" cause more harm and long-term issues than it solves AND is there a "cure" or health aid that can help without harm and possible side effects? For example, if I can use herbs to cure a sinus infection, I'll definitely do that before I upset the body's flora and fauna with antibiotics.
Tel mentioned, Illich's Medical Nemesis, which, according to Wikipedia, is about the undue medicalization of what should be natural processes. I can respect that, and lived it somewhat, too, by having home births for both of my kids. I must admit, however, that I am SO thankful we have hospitals, and surgeons and modern medicine for when we need them.
I have another story to add to Anne's two about heart trouble late in life--this one about heart trouble early in life.
My friend told me of someone who'd also had a home birth - a lovely baby girl. The pregnancy had been so normal that the mother hadn't even had an ultrasound because of some reports that ultrasound waves (are they called waves?) could possibly be harmful. (For the record, I also chose NOT to have ultrasounds for both of my pregnancies.) Their daughter was born without incident and seemed to be healthy and happy...until one awful day when she choked on a bite of food while sitting in her high chair and...died.
The baby girl had been born with a heart defect. My friend's impression was that an ultrasound might have seen this defect, and then the baby would have been subjected to all kinds of tests, surgeries, etc., catapulting the entire family through intense stress for all those days and months of the pregnancy and her young life. Without knowing about the defect, the family had simply enjoyed each other and their baby daughter, without the stress and doubts.
My friend was convinced the baby girl's heart defect could not have been cured by surgeries and whatnot. She thought it was better that the family had been able to enjoy her without knowing of her heart defect, than to go through the torture and pain of useless surgeries. To this day, I wonder if that's one of those little comfort lies we might tell ourselves, or whether the surgeries really would have been fruitless. I don't know enough of the facts or parties involved to tell.