posted 8 years ago
One thought would be to mulch that area that you want to keep for picnics and such—a six inch layer of wood chips. Within a couple of months, that mulch will pack down to a couple of inches and be a nice surface to set a picnic table or lawn chairs on, but it will feed the soil and give you a jump start on decompacting the soil. Put in a horseshoe pit, tie up a hammock . . . whatever you want . . . the wood chips would make it a maintainance free space. No mowing, no weeding, no watering.
Then, if and when you want to plant something, just pull the wood chips back, dig a hole in the newly improved soil, and drop your plant or seeds into the ground. In the summer, you could keep it free to use for social events. And in the winter, rake the mulch back and plant your cabbages, carrots, salad greens, herbs, etc.
You could plant on the edges of the space and let vines reach out across the mulch in places where you don't walk much. Pumpkins, cucumbers, watermelon, etc. Watermelon grows fantastic in our climate.
When you are done, just walk away. That mulch will keep weeds and grasses down, and will eventually break down and totally disappear. If they ever want to put horses back into that space, no problem at all.
I live about an hour south of you and wood chips have been the answer to just about every garden question I've ever asked (I'm only slightly exagerating). Flag down a tree trimming crew, have them back up their truck and dump the chips right on that space, spread them out, and watch the garden magic happen.
"The rule of no realm is mine. But all worthy things that are in peril as the world now stands, these are my care. And for my part, I shall not wholly fail in my task if anything that passes through this night can still grow fairer or bear fruit and flower again in days to come. For I too am a steward. Did you not know?" Gandolf