I'm definitely am right here along with you...except growing a vegetable garden is also new for me, and so it was three years of not much of anything producing!
Our year three wasn't that amazing, either (It probably didn't help that I was pregnant for the first year and managing a colicky baby the second...and now this year I've got another little one to watch). But, but, we still DID get a LOT more from our garden compared to the previous two years. Our blueberries were finally producing enough for us to eat (but not enough to store) and we managed to grow an insane amount of radishes and some other food in our garden, and our
apple trees gave us about 30 apples total (versus the 4 apples the year before). This year--year four--we're still mostly eating from the land ends up being native plants we've just encouraged. We ate cooked dandelion greens and chives, as well as nettles...and only the chives we purposefully planted! Most of the calories we get are from the native salmonberries, blackberries and thimbleberries that I
mulch and prune.
Now that it's year four, things do seem to be doing much better. I've learned to
fence my garden beds from my ducks so that they eat the slugs and not the veggies and strawberries, and I've learned how much to feed my ducks to actually get them to produce. My raspberry plants have finally grown large enough to withstand some
deer munching, and I was actually able to transplant some out into my native salmonberry hedges for more delicious berries. I have high hopes for my strawberries and my garden beds and my net potato bed, as well as my fruit trees.
As for fruit trees not being pollinated, I guess this is one area where I'm lucky to live on a north-facing slope. My
apple trees still have yet to open up even one bud! The cherries did bloom, and I actually hand-pollinated those to be on the safe side...maybe I should hand pollinate my peach, too!
Your strawberry story reminds me a little of my walking onion story. I bought about 30 of them and planted them around my fruit trees. With accidentally weeding them when I thought I was weeding grass, and them not liking the damp soil, I ended up with only two surviving plants, two years later. Last year I dug them up and transplanted them to my raised keyhole garden, and they actually grew bulbils! I planted about 30 bulbils and I've got another 5 plants growing (they didn't like the deep mulch and the cold winter, I think...). I'm HOPING this year they will finally take off!
Oh, and you're strawberry pictures aren't showing

. I think I read somewhere that it often takes a year for strawberry plants to mature enough to make fruit. So, it might be that all those runners last year needed a full year to mature enough to start making strawberries? I hope they are productive for you. I don't have coastal strawberries, but I have the woodland ones, and I really like them. They are the first to produce, and they give me little strawberries all the way into October some years. The slugs also don't seem to eat them as much as the larger strawberries, because I didn't get to eat any large strawberries last year due to ducks and slugs, but got quite a lot of the little wild strawberries!