I'm in a 12'x24' cabin with a loft. I have a 6" system with a 20' long mass bench - basically the burn area is at one end of the building and the mass goes the length. I burn maybe a cord and a half of
wood per winter. On the coldest days & nights I use about 3 5 gallon buckets of wood, and I'm in New Hampshire. Coldest nights I burn for about three hours, and then an hour or two in the morning. It works pretty well, now that I've figured out its quirks and fixed a few things like making sure the chimney goes high enough.
When it is at the coldest outside I try to get it up to over 80 degrees F in here before going to sleep. Its a little hot, but not too bad, and when I wake up it is not too cold.
You will have to get used to the temp fluctuating but that's OK. You can also build the mass up a bit higher on the outside of the burn barrel to lessen the quick radiating heat during a burn, but you do have to be careful not to go so high that it dampens the heat riser/burn barrel temperature difference that makes it all work.