Here are a couple recipe books that I have found really helpful because they use freshly ground flour in their recipes:
Peter Reinhart's Whole Grain Breads:
https://pleasanthillgrain.com/peter-reinharts-whole-grain-breads-book
Sue Becker's Home Ground Flour:
https://pleasanthillgrain.com/peter-reinharts-whole-grain-breads-book
This book has good bread recipes but also cakes, cookies, scones, etc.
Another item to note is that if you're making cakes, pies, or cookies, it's better to use soft wheat. If you're making breads, then hard wheat is the way to go.
For breads, another option is to add a dough enhancer or gluten to the recipe to give it a lighter texture.