posted 9 years ago
How formal is the preschool planning on with lesson plans and such? Kids 0-3 need a lot of unstructured time to just muck about and do things on their own in a reasonably safe environment, maybe with a bit of redirection from the more dangerous things ("no, let's not push Sally's head in the water" kind of stuff).
Sensory stuff, all the way. Heaps of positive benefits for kids at that age. If there's much scope for building a natural classroom, that's a plus too. Most kids love the chance to play outside on big rocks and logs and trees and such. It's heaps good for them too.
Water play is also hugely popular, especially if there's things you can put in the water. Not just "proper" water toys either - scoops, buckets, stones, sticks, anything really. It all gets thrown in the water and experimented with.
Relationship building in the 3-and-under crowd is really more about modelling the behaviours you want them to learn, more than anything. Sportscasting and letting them work through conflict before jumping in to sort it out is also useful. Maybe social stories at reading time? I'm not a very inter-personal human so I'm a bit stuck for suggestions here.
Though I wouldn't worry too much about it anyway since most kids are still involved in parallel play up to five or six years of age, or even beyond. So most relational things are just learning to work through the emotions around sharing/not sharing of communal resources.
Most young kids also like to help out in the garden, though enthusiasm often outstrips ability. Watering things and planting seeds are the top two activities here with the resident three-year-old. So things like getting each kid to plant up a pot of something fast-growing (eg radishes, mustard, cress) and watching how they grow works a treat. So does chia pet type things.
Raised beds can help contain the bedlam if you're planning on doing much patch tending with them. Expect great delight and diversions from things such as caterpillars, butterflies, earthworms and so on.
Speaking of earthworms, kids seem to really like worm farms. Tons of learning right there.
But as Matt said, a lot of the learning at that age is best viewed as an informal thing. They'll soak up anything you present them with, especially if it's fun.
Caveat: I'm not a teacher, just a parent of a child that age who hangs around with a lot of other like-minded parents of kids that age.
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