Okay, the first thing I would recommend is that you read
https://permies.com/t/11/organic-lawn-care-cheap-lazy or at least the article it is discussing. There's watering, fertilizing, and mowing suggestions.
My St Augustine is thriving just following the mowing instructions. I don't water or fertilize my grass at all. In fact, I occasionally steal nutrients from the St Augustine by bagging the clippings to mulch other areas of the yard that need a
boost.
It seems like the biggest limitation the St Augustine in my yard is sun exposure. Maybe if I watered it would take over my whole yard, but instead it gives me dense green coverage everywhere that gets at least some afternoon shade. I think it spread into my yard in the first place (before I moved here) from the neighbors, as there is an uninterrupted section from the shade of their live oak to the first
trees on my property.
As for watering at night, absolutely. Plants basically stop all biologic function they can manage over a certain temperature. (I think it's usually 90 degrees) If you water at night in Texas, this gives the plants the absolute best chance to absorb all that water before it evaporates, runs off, or the plant stops functioning. It's colder climates (or maybe in the winter) where the water will sit and stagnate that watering at night causes problems. Their nighttime air is too cold and humid to evaporate and can develop into mold and disease vectors on the plants. Not a problem in Texas.