I think you are over complicating the thinking. Can you put in a single tall skinny tank possibly on a raised platform so it is higher and insulate it some? Do away with pressurized system and adhere to kiss. Gravity if you can get the water more than about 4 feet over your head will do. Basing this on the portable camping
shower bags. If you can get them over your head by at least 4 feet you can get
enough to take a decent
shower. Or if you have a pressurized water source like
city water you can run it thru a heat exchanger in your tank but keep the hot water tank open. Even if the tank comes to a boil it can never get the lines under pressure boiling as long as you have water in the tank. You can do it with a single tank and a stratifier provided the tank is tall enough. Hot water on top and cold water on the bottom.
Suggest starting with this
video at 1 hour and 11 minutes in. And watch the next 30 to 45 minutes.
It does a nice job of explaining what the tank needs to do as far as height and how to build a cheap stratifier. Now where all you want is hot water and where you likely have a large number of sun days the tank can be much smaller.
Now your next comment is likely that it is still too expensive. Suggest looking at this video showing how to bring the cost of the tank down.
Then if you can add a cheap black poly pipe painted even blacker plus to slightly protect it from UV and for a bit of added absorbtion and add some sort of clear cover sheet to keep more heat in you
should be good.