Welcome to permises.com Jaylee.
There is so much to consider to make your dream come through. I would aim for a site that is 4.5acres .
1acre
firewood section (gasifier,
rocket stove,
rocket mass heater)
1acre
fish pond (200lbs of tilapia in the tropics or 40lbs of bluegill in cooler regions)
1acre
pasture (goat/sheep esp if they are dwarf,
milk, and some meat)
1acre
food forest (200
trees, that a lot of nuts and fruits that you will have too harvest and preserve)
1/4acre
vegetable/herbs/mushroom garden
1/4acre for the
house/lawn/garage/etc
If you want to have
cattle then it would be 4.5acres per cow in the tropics, for cooler/drier regions it would be
alot more.
There is food preparation/preservation:
solar dehydration, fermentation, sugaring, alcohol, outdoor
rocket stove, solar souse-vide, etc
There is also housing system:
Electric (solar, wind, micro-hydro, backup generator, battery, gasifier, etc)
Water (well, water purification, rain water catchment, irrigation, etc)
Septic/Greywater
Hot water (solar
hot water, instant hot water heater, hotwater from the AC unit, rocket stove, firewood, etc)
HVAC (natural ventilation, earth
berm, green roof, ERV, Heatpump, radiant heating/cooling, bathroom/kitchen vent, etc)
Outdoor Kitchen/Living room
Fuel (Gas Tank, Bio-gas generator, gasifier,
wood pellet, etc)
House (Earthbag,
cob, timber frame, green roof, earth berm, on pier, etc)