posted 4 years ago
I also think that "word smarter, not harder" is very evident in designing the homestead. Homesteading is hard work, no doubt. But I find it to be very rewarding. I hope everyone here can someday take the plunge to start working from home on their own land. Even if your "land" is currently an apartment balcony!
I think working outside the home at an 8 to 5 job is takes up much more time 8 to 5 on the clock. What I mean is that if you have to get to work by 8am, you're probably up at 6am in order to make the coffee, shower, iron clothes, get dressed, get the kids off to school/daycare, and then start the commute. When 5pm comes around, you have to drive to pick up the kids, get home, make dinner, eat dinner, clean up the kitchen, help the kids with homework, perhaps take the kids to their sports practice, then drive back home, get the kids bathed and into bed, and then try to have a few minutes to decompress on your own before you go to bed and do the same thing all over again the next day.
I've always advocated for new moms to really go over their budgets--incomes vs. expenses--to see if going to work outside the home was really worth their family's financial success. By not going to work outside the home, many moms can: stop buying two separate wardrobes ("work" clothes vs. "home" clothes), perhaps sell the family's second car to save on gasoline/wear and tear/insurance, cook from home (eating out is a budget killer), and quit paying for daycare (and perhaps start watching a different family's young'un for supplemental income). Of course, every family's situation is different, so everyone must decide for themselves if being a stay-at-home mom is feasible.
What I mean by all that is working from home on a homestead does indeed fill up my day, but I am not working for "the man." If I need to take a sick day, I take a sick day. If I need to stop for lunch, I'll stop for lunch. I'm working probably just as much (if not more) on my own land as I was when I worked outside the home, but I'm in charge of my time now.