Hello,
Not sure if you ever found property or not, but I can give some input from our recent experience purchasing land in OK.
We live in the Yukon area, but I moved here from Norman when I got married. My husband and I wanted to get land, but really had no experience with how to go about that. My dad lives in Kentucky, and my mom lives in Colorado, so we also considered both of these locations. Natural resources were a main focus for us, and we did not want to move anywhere in a growing zone we were unfamiliar with, had water concerns (either lack of or overabundance causing flooding concerns), put us even farther away from family (we also have a lot of family in the OKC metro), or had state or local restrictions that would make it difficult for us to establish our way of life the way we intended. We did not intend to move to the land immediately, so this was a big factor in what we were looking for as it didn't have to sustain us right away.
We started on realtor.com and Zillow just looking in all areas to see what was available, what kinds of listings were there, and just monitored the market over a period of about 6 months. We also started looking on Landandfarm.com and Landwatch.com as they are more land focused. Through that time, we started to refine down the essential things we were looking for on the property, and set a budget for how much we were willing to spend, and the minimum acreage we wanted. We determined we wanted at least 10 acres, and a creek and/or pond on property was important. We also were provided a website by our realtor that showed wells depths that was really useful for us in determining expected cost of digging a well. We learned that it is easier to do a cash purchase, which we preferred anyway so as not to incur debt. This set our max budget, and we just continued to save money as we looked. We did start to really focus in on what we were looking for, and what were our most important features. The closer to a metro area you get, the higher the price per acre, but the farther you get, the higher the cost and difficulty to install things like internet, etc.
Earlier this year, we took a trip to the areas of the state that we had not really explored much, primarily the eastern half of OK. We identified a few properties that seemed good and made a route to go to the sites and see what it was actually like there. This was an amazing learning experience for us, and we found that things are very different in pictures than they are in real life! We fell in love with the Moyers area just north of Antlers, but as pretty as it was, it is very raw land, with poor road access in general. The Tahlequah area was also beautiful, but it was odd how the land we found there felt even more disconnected and harder to get to than that in the Moyers area. As we drove, we jotted down realtors from signs we saw along the way, and started going to their websites to look at the listings. This turned out to be a good move, and opened up more specific listings that we hadn't seen on other general listing sites. This also introduced us to our realtor who was very helpful in our search (
https://www.century21.com/real-estate-agent/profile/travis-pack-P414049860).
Ultimately, we found our land, and it was perfect. 10 acres in budget, creek, pond, 80% treed, grass meadow, paved road access, and we get super good cell coverage (I was able to use my hotspot to connect to the internet with decent speeds)... We just visited last week to start an inventory of the land, and I am blown away by the natural abundance. Many of the pants and trees you listed are already present and thriving with no intervention on our land.
I think our biggest take-aways were:
1. Research. Research. Research.
2. Patience is the key. Know what you want and be willing to pass on things. Don't get desperate.
3. Be open to areas you hadn't considered. They may surprise you!
4. Work with a realtor that works with you and knows the area. We spoke to a few realtors from listing we found, and none of them seemed very engaged with us except the one we ultimately settled on. He not only spent time with us to answer general questions, but he owned land in many of the places we were looking, so could give really good input on what it was actually like there, pros and cons, etc., and even contractors etc. to help with developing the land once we purchased.
5. Any land can be shaped by permaculture into a thriving paradise, some just take more time and effort than others.
Good luck in your search!