I find adding a little extra
water and leaving the batter or dough for a while before cooking to let the coarser grain hydrate fully helps with final texture.
I recently got a hand crank wondermill junior. Oats and buckwheat grind up very fine. I can get them like cornstarch if I want. I haven't tried teff or amaranth, but millet is pretty good, definitely way better than cornmeal. I've had a hard time getting chickpeas as fine as I like - but I like chickpea flour very smooth, like cornstarch. Lentils are easier.
I kind of like a slightly coarser grind for most things, so after playing around with it the first day I haven't really tried for super fine. Even with a kinda cheapo mill like mine, it sounds like I get better results than you do with the vitamix, though.