Woman, 34 Looking for Love + Land

Hey there permies! Firstly glad to have found this forum. I’m currently living temporarily on a dear friends homestead in Northern Missouri and ready to find my mate and begin growing deep roots with him on our forever land and home. I want to marry and have children, homeschool, and eventually be 100% self sustained. I understand the commitment, hard work and dedication required to live this way and thinking of it inspires passion and true happiness.

My core values are creativity, compassion, open mindedness, growth, love,  health and well-being.

I am not vaccinated and my hope is to birth at home. I however am also a very practical and reasonable person who is highly adaptable to necessary change. My intention is to strip away distorted programs and thereby live in harmony with nature. I believe that children learn from what they observe far more than what they hear and therefore I have a responsibility to co-create with my mate a Space of Love.

I am a musician, I play guitar, baritone ukulele and sing. I am an artist of many forms, there is nothing I can’t figure out how to fix or solve. I love making things and learning new skills.

I want a relationship which is built on a solid foundation of friendship, respect, mutual interest, dedication and love. I am not having sex before marriage. I seek a man who is excited to have a family, a hard worker, loyal and willing to communicate well and when needed. A true team mate and lover.

If getting to know one another long distance, I prefer phone conversations and video calls over text. I can sound super business oriented through text but in real life I’m quite warm, fun and friendly. I love to play and laugh!

I am 5’5” with an athletic build, I practice yoga, meditation and breathwork every day. I eat eggs and occasional fish and red meat with mostly veggies and fruit. I don’t care if we eat differently as long as there’s mutual respect. Having similar spiritual views definitely helps! I am not a Christian, I dont identify with any religion but if you had to categorize me then call me Buddhist [If you Must]

Anyway, if you’re body is buzzing after reading this then please message me Xx

I sent you a moosage.

If I were not 20 years older... You sound delightful

How do you feel about the desert?

Right on SiSTAR!🌟
I admire your straight-up approach.
I too want a partner & land but I've felt I should have the Land 1st & then put out my offer.
You know your worth.
You've inspired me
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Hi, Sara. I'm 52 but in very good physical (and mental) shape, and I own my own 1/4-acre lot/home in Iowa City, IA. Small orchard, 14 raised beds. I make my living here as a part-time gardener. You sound intriguing and I am impressed with your unvaxxed status. I have also not taken any of the clot shots and I applaud your discernment. I sew and cook and am learning to knit and am all about self-sufficiency and resilience. If I'm too old, I understand, but this house needs to go to someone eventually, lol. Best of luck to you.

Jimmy

I am also in Missouri and sent you a message

Reading your post makes me wish we weren't on the opposite sides of the pond

Hey
I saw your post and am very interested. 38 M in Maine. Living in an off grid cabin but would like to explore natural building especially cob and earth bag. Would relocate

I'm 36, with 1,500 acres in South Dakota. My family has been ranching here for +7 generations, but I am moving away from the conventional ag practices towards permaculture.
I find the most inspiration from Andrew Millison.
I have already started with keyline trenches and I've planted over 700 trees.

I was divorced in 2020 after helping my partner of +5 years realize her desire to date women. This is related to my general inclination to be non-monogamous, which does not mean polyamory necessarily (I have tried that, it was a bit too much for me). But I do like to be in relationship where open and honest conversation about attraction can be discussed and neither person believes they "own" the other person.  Emotional fidelity is very important to me, much more than physical fidelity. But that's a long complex conversation that I brought up to explain my current state of being:
I'm currently single and after +2 years of dating, I've stopped dating.
I'm just working on the ranch and farm, with a focus on finding kindred spirits interested in working on the pursuit of self-sufficiency and fulfilling stewardship. Romance is not as important as shared interest to me. I may like women, but I would be happy to welcome any person/people of any gender identity/expression to join myself and my friends in this work out here. I'd prefer to know someone for years before even considering a relationship.

I'm committed to decolonization and I lean towards a DGR/Social Ecology (see Murray Bookchin) philosophy. I often listen to podcasts and audiobooks 4 to 8 hours a day, and would love to find someone similarly passionate about learning and teaching. I also love to sing and dance and would love to have more friends to sing and dance with... I actually perform in the cities on the weekend to earn extra revenue for the ranch. I drink too much beer and I have been smoking one cigar a day lately... I'd prefer to spend my sunset hours doing CrossFit, yoga, swimming, or trail running though. While I need time to myself, it is undeniable that I am an extrovert who gets energy from interacting with others. I am also happier and healthier when I have good networks/groups/communities around healthy activities (there are no fitness. groups nearby, I use my rowing machine throughout the week and I go to the city gym on weekends). Despite my love of CrossFit, I am not a "bro" in any way.
I have been known as a "queer-hippie-cowboy" for years because I present as a traditional cowboy in many ways, except for my frequently bare feet, and my unabashed ability to express my "feminine side"...  which simply involves cooking, singing, dancing, practicing empathy, nonviolent communication, art, design and some other things the more traditional neighbors label as "gay" or "weak".

I also like to connect with spiritual groups like Buddhists, Unitarians, Pagans, and other types of naturalistic/contemplative spirituality.
While I'm responding here to you, Sara, I'm obviously writing this to the broader Permie Community because I'm interested in meeting anyone/everyone who is even remotely interested in practicing permaculture in South Dakota.

Sara, you're adorable, and I'd certainly love to begin a conversation.  As for anyone else who found this overshare at all intriguing, go ahead and moosage me.

Hey girl, I have some off-grid property in Tennessee.

Do you like goats?  Hmu

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Hello there my name is Brian I live in interior Alaska and own land. Not interested in marriage will explain.contact bsmith011987@gmail.com ph# 9072035505. Been needing a life partner I can trust with my life without fail? If interested please contact me I have something to offer in return. Please do not scam me will not tolerate! Be kind patience peace....

Hey, if you are interested in the Southwest, I have a homestead ranch, and am looking for someone with similar interests. I work in IT, am laid back, and originally from So Cal. See my post in this section, if you want to see more about me. I would love to talk sometime.  -Dan

How are you?

Hi there, i sent you a PM. here is the picture i said i would post