Hello John and welcome to Permies!
I think a successful installation depends very much on your house layout. The typical cob bench/barrel RMH has 2 main heater elements - the barrel which gets hot quickly and will heat the rooms mainly by radiant heat is maybe best positioned centrally. The thermal mass (bench) heats the people sitting on it and retains heat staying warm for long after the fire has gone out. I've seen plans for benches both centrally and along outside walls so I don't think it matters too much.
You will find some links to threads about dimensions on
this thread and
this one has a build discussed on a suspended wooden floor which might help about floor loading.
If you post a sketch of your initial ideas, then usually some more experienced people are usually happy to critique it for you!