posted 2 hours ago
You need masses and masses of organic matter. Composting is great but you have to get more than kitchen scraps. Look everywhere for <free> biomass:
Tree trimming services
Ranch waste
Friends with horses?
landscapers
sawmills
Autumn leaves
This is going to take time and effort. Remember that large amounts of biomass can get quite hot piled up into windrows, which is good for composting, but on a large scale is a lot of work without a tractor front bucket. If its not kept wet enough you can risk combustion (specially if your climate is a bit hot and dry). I would go for no more than 12 in deep layer rather than windrows and keep a clear area immediately around the house.
Fortunately I had a friend with horses and brought in around 4-5ton manure each Autumn. The soil was pretty good after ~ 6 years! This was just 1/4 acre in suburbia.
You will notice that the ground will be very "hungry" with all that sand. In a blink all that biomass will just melt away, but your soil fertility will be much better and you will have much better luck establishing your foundational planting. By around year 3 tree/shrub and other garden waste will be generating substantial amounts of mulch.
Now is a good time to think very carefully about the local flow of water. Since you are on a sandy loam your difficulty will be with having too much drainage and the land will be droughty. A lot of recommendations in books and online often give advice for clay-loams and will not be suitable as the techniques are all aimed at moving water away from plants and improving moisture. Rather than planting on hills go for planting in dips, buried rotting timber (e.g. Hugel), swales to try slowing down run-off (within reason, don't end up directing water into your basement) plus lots and lots of organic matter.
Sandy soils means looking for more drought resistant plants. One trick: if its grey or silver its probably going to work well. Many drought resistant plants have fine hairs or waxes on the leaf surfaces giving them that glaucus look. You will probably get sick of seeing grey everywhere.....but later on you can establish more interesting plants. Work with your environmental conditions, not against them.