R.Ranson. I have a feeling that you are in decent shape, and that the strain on your back is because you are using the wrong length of tool as you are indicating, and so I wont bother to ask how you are doing physically, but I will point out a few obvious things for the benefit of others, and maybe you, about tool use, since I have extensive labor
experience and because I like labor and use a lot of tools, both mechanical and manual. I consider myself to be in pretty great shape, but I do get strained from certain tasks and from certain tools.
The problem for me is often my own persistent nature. What I mean is that even when I am beginning to ache, I might keep up with the same position or pattern of use, because I feel that it's the efficient thing to do to get the job done fast. The efficient thing to do, though, is is to stop and stretch, or change tasks, or change positions. I have the added bonus of being semi-ambidextrous (although generally right dominant), so I can switch sides/positions a lot easier than others can,
but everybody can stretch, and I ALWAYS feel great about taking a moment to do it. Take a moment to simply take a break, to breathe, and/or a longer break to relax your back (detail of big back relaxation below).
Doing Yoga, Pilates, and especially Core Strengthening goes a long way to having a happy back. Choosing the right tools, and your body position while working is massively important, and no amount of yoga will be able to support poor posture while working, particularly as you age and your muscles begin to degenerate.
But most of my friends who want to help out, tire really easily using such a large tool. I figure I could get more work out of my volunteers (and increase the chances of them coming back) if I could figure out which tool is the right size for their body type.
Ergonomics is huge, but it is often task specific rather than necessarily tool or person specific. So it really can depend on a combination of these variables.
The length and size of a tool handle can be VERY important. My favorite weeding tool for instance, is a long forked screwdriver type tool that I think was designed for weeding dandelions. I have two such tools, but one has a handle that is too fat and too long, and I tend to pass on using it. The ergonomics of weeding (which I do on my knees--sometimes with my prosthetic leg off) is massively different with the shorter, thinner version, which I can use for hours with micro breaks. I have several shovels of different lengths and some with straight handles and some with "D" handles, and I will walk a thousand feet to grab the right one and return to the garden to do something; that's how important it is to me (note to self: build a garden shed in the garden-duh!)... but sometimes... often, actually, I don't think about it, I just get focused on the task, and grab the closest tool that sort of fits the bill and I end up getting myself into a position that is not conducive to my general health. I do this occasionally at work as a railroad laborer to occasional great distress. In my job, the right to refuse unsafe work, in any way, is something that I rarely do, but I actually have done on a number of occasions, more so than most railroaders for sure, and that is because I have become more and more conscious of what is safe for my body and my abilities, and I know that I
should not use this jackhammer, or that shovel, or that hammer, for this or that task, because my body can't handle it (or I know the tool to be dangerous)... not for the repetitive, all systems go full speed ahead, give'er because we only got so long for the task because the trains are coming kind of work. I know that if I grab the right jackhammer, the lighter or heavier hammer, the shorter shovel with the 'D' handle or the long one with the straight handle then I will be able to perform the task safely and efficiently. The same is true of anybody who comes to help you. If you have a variety of tools you can offer what might work for the person in question the will be a lot happier to help and to return as you said.
I am lucky to be short (5'4''). I get to have more options for tools that work for me, as more tools have handles that are often too short, but few that are too long (which can usually be shortened if they are). I definitely feel for you. It's a challenge to get the right tool for your body when you are taller. I will sometimes forego my own comfort to give a longer handled tool to a taller person. I think going for the longer handles is a good start. There are also long handled 'D' handle shovels too, but they are rare... you can make one though.
Highly recommended
Back Relaxation:
Stand straight up and then spread your legs a little wider than shoulder width, bending your knees slightly. Feel your feet anchor you and stabilize your weight over them. Lengthen your spine via bringing your chin in and up toward your spine/cranial connection while rolling your shoulders forward up, and then back, toward your back. Breath into the vertical spine. If it doesn't feel vertical, make it so, slowly and with consciousness to your breathing. You are now prepared to begin the spine bend. This exercise is
not meant to be done super quick, nor is it meant to have touching your toes as the goal; it's meant to be relaxation of the spinal joints/back muscles. So the next thing to do is to slowly reverse the shoulder rotation, and as the shoulders are rolled to their most forward position, tuck the chin into the gap in your collar bones. Stay here for at least one long breath in and out as your spine has begun bending. The arms should be dangling loosely at your sides now. Carry on bending slowly one vertebrae at a time, being sure to stop if you feel any tension. Your arms will be slightly rocked forward as you progress in this. Breath a few times in the tension position of any tense vertebrae, or if that is too much tension then back up a vertebrae and breathe there until you feel like you can proceed. If after the second time you still can not bend that tense vertebrae then allow it to bend with the next one or two (making a mental note that this area should be cared for via massage or hot stones or chiro or something), and carry on in this manner (slowly and mindfully and with a lot of breath) until you are bent over towards your toes. Hang in this position (legs anchoring and spine dangling), and try to breathe deeper than ever, with the spine in natural traction. After several breaths, very gently sway your spine slightly, using your arms like an elephant's trunk to loosely hover near all your toes (or if you are very flexible dusting the ground with your finger tips or palms around your feet). Go back to the deep traction straight down position, and breath there again. After you feel really relaxed there, focus again on your feet stabilizing your weight. Anchor your feet and feel the musculature in your legs from your feet all the way up to your hip bones supporting your spine in natural traction. Bear this weight and consciously allow your legs, and the leg connections to your lower back to slowly lift your body, one vertebrae at a time, and breathing into any problem areas in the way described for your way down. You may notice that the spine is happier than on the way down. Do this all the way up until you can roll your shoulders and untuck your chin. Stay in your vertical relaxed position, breathing for at least three breath cycles. Your body should be significantly relaxed, you spine lengthened, and your mind focused. You can either do this again, or take a light step and feel any difference in your body. Now try to go about shoveling or hoeing in a way that is more conscious and accepting of our body the way it is and the way that feels best.