Yes, one star fish thrown back to the sea doesn't do a whole lot if that's all that happens, but one star fish thrown in sea by someone saying "hey everyone! Look how awesome this is!" Does bring awareness to the feasibility of solving the problems.
Much of my conversation about us doing our weird
sustainable stuff with friends and family involve breaking down barriers in habit, perspective, and normalizing it. A perfect example: 6 years ago when we were going to have child #1, I told the parental crowd we were going to use cloth diapers. They were sure that was a stupid idea. Their friends thought so too. To the point they would help us buy anything for the baby except that and they also bought us regular diapers, despite us not needing them. We got calls waiting for the moment of failure of our cloth diaper system. It of
course never came and they saw how well it worked. Now the parental crowd and all their friends tell all the others of my generation interested in having kids about how cloth diapers are a cool viable option, rather than the disposables. So, my simple self controlled defiance changed the perspective for 10+ people, this doesn't include my own advocating and others who saw us around town.
This is how I roll and have been called "the silent rebel" because of it. Some people are good at advocating and steering larger masses via force. Maybe some day I'll get into that. I just find it unfair to enforce my moral standards on others when I can't even keep up to them myself. Instead I have great empathy for the person who does no things to save the planet. That's where society steers us and unless you get shown the truth and a way to handle the truth, I feel it's easy to get stuck in the Matrix. I try to give people a path forward that they can incorporate without huge effort by me pleasantly sharing and normalizing.
So, back to the original topic. People say they are doing zero waste, only getting like a small container of waste in 3 years, and I want to know- really?? I want to give them the benefit of the doubt, because I could just be dumb, so I'd like it explained by item. Starting with the items I see in my trash that I think: well, there's no way to avoid that. I'd like someone to open my mind as to how I can go zero waste. Thanks!