I respect individuals' right to their own individuality.
I find it objectionable that anyone
should be made to feel obligated to be reverent, above a level of respect due the articles of faith of others, physical and immaterial, to people and things others have decided are sacrosanct.
If I think that Jesus was the man born of a virgin two millenia ago, fathered by the Judeo-Christian God, that's on me, just as I would bear the burdens of faith should I follow the Norse beliefs, or the ancient Egyptians'.
My belief doesn't obligate you to believe, and yours shouldn't obligate me.
As to respect, I certainly try. I have an issue where basic religious tenets get in the way of basic reasoning, creating impasses. That's why, for the most part, religion is treated, for me, as a series of different mythologies. In that way, I can discuss issues, even issues of faith, with believers in their idiom, so that we can converse and have a dialogue without it devolving into questions of faith versus proof.
I fully admit that there are parts of many religions I find dated at best, evil at their worst, and a great many that are just silly. If I am pushed on any particular one of those in a way I deem inappropriate, I will respond, though usually well within the comfort levels of the publication standards.
That is how I reason my way around the religious.
As to what religion is, I really like the analogy in the first post. But it doesn't say anything about what religion is, in general.
I have said this in other posts here, but I think it's appropriate to put here.
For me, religion started in our prehistory, as primitive
homo sapiens tried to figure out how their world worked. As their understanding grew, so did their explanations, now likely couched in colourful animistic clothing.
Time passed, and stories were compiled, and tradition borrowed from tradition, and eventually larger religions were born. At that point, heads-of-state were enshrined as godlike figures, and power was centralised at the top. For my money, religion began it's downward spiral there. It's with organised, formalised religion that you see measures written into belief systems that seek to control and manipulate behaviour. At this point, religion has stopped seeking to explain existence and has begun to wrest control away for itself.
Enter reason. I doubt if the classical Greeks were the earliest scientific innovators, but they were among the first who wanted to share what they had learned. They were so successful at it that we remember some of them, and their innovations. This started us on a path of reason, of observation and deduction, and of fact-based decision-making.
Of the good that religion does nowadays, I think that it can act as a civic activity in communities that hold one religion in common, a weekly meeting of the community where ideas and concerns can be discussed, and as a way for the
local leader of the group, whatever the denomination, to discuss current and pertinent issues that the community might be having a problem with.
Generally, where it opens doors and minds rather than closing them, and where they are help to people rather than hindrance, religion and religious practice can be wonderful things.
Also generally, where it is an obstacle, religion is best avoided in favour of the secular mindset.
It's a sticky issue, which is why it has its own entire forum within the cider press. I am of the opinion that, even if a god or gods exist, we need to be off the teat, anyways. They can't possibly need our worship, or they are more parasite than deity, so it's not for their good that we hold to religion. I don't think any actual good can come from religion that can't come from natural human interaction, and there are no new answers to be found there. So for me, it's rationalism and materialism. At least there's no requisite weekly navel-gaze there.
I will spend my Sundays, and my Saturdays if I can, and any other day I have, trying to make the world better in ways that I deem fit. I will probably do
earthworks and plant food, both
perennial and annual, and things that bloom, for the pollinators, and for the beauty and sweet scent of them. And they will bloom and grow, and I will look upon it, and call it good.
And everyone else can do as they like, too.
-CK