While I have never used the lime hemp finish, it sounds at least as durable as the fine clay mud finishes that I have mixed and applied here in New Mexico. Since your walls, humidity and other variables are unique, it might be useful to make some sample wall surfaces to try different materials. For example, to test finishes in my environmental conditions, I have taken adobe blocks, troweled on the plaster wall layers, then tried different surface treatments. To do this, replicate the finishing layers then experiment with the ideas mentioned above. Olive oil will probably smell rancid over time. Fat-free milk will not smell. White flour paste without the wheat germ will not smell. See what damage your son could do to the surface of the trial surfaces.
For a final finish, I have spritzed water-based carnauba wax on surfaces with success. I have also rubbed whipped car wax onto walls with beautiful results. Once applied, I use a light-weight electric rotary car polisher to get a super shiny finish.
Good luck with your
project Tiiffaney!