posted 10 years ago
Aaron, 
  It really is all up to you and what use you want out of a tree. Pretty much any tree can be manicured and trained to fill the spot intended. If starting with a small tree, just don't cut it up too much right away. Make it a work in process. (Photosynthesis) 
 
 I recommend walking around different, nurseries, parks, gardens, and garden centers, and find a tree that speaks to you or one you may fall in love with.
 
 I love all trees. Flowering, fruiting, nut bearing, coniferous,  Deciduous... I love em all. 
 It seems like every year I fall in love with a different tree and I have to have 1 or 3.
 
 As of lately Cryptomeria japonica yoshino has been my love affair. 
  
 If in 6-20 years the tree is getting too big, trim it or cut it down and start over.