Are you on the Australian Permaculture Research Institute forums http://forums.permaculture.org.au/forum.php ?
They don't have a 'singles' forum as such, but you're more likely to find likeminded people from your part of the world.
my name is Rad , 33 year old divorced mom of 2
I just came back to Australia after yet another stay in India where I was staying at Sadhana forest (www.sadhanaforest,org)
I do have an apartment right in Cavill ave where I usually live but I have decided to housesit for a mate in Murwillumbah as I am also trying to find a place (rent at this stage) to get somethng rolling here in the Rainbow region. ( in what I have decided is the "golden triangle" of Murbah, Byron, Casino)
well most guys aren't really looking for a mom with 2 kids, but if you would like a friend who shares the same visions please feel free to say hi, we might be able to share some ideas .
Good luck with your search mate. I'm in a similar situation so I have also posted to this forum to see where it leads me. So hard to find a nice lady to homestead with. Hamish (near Goondiwindi on the Qld NSW border)
Have you found your permaqueen yet?!
I'm currently looking for a partner to set up a greenie home with. I'm listed on Oasisactive.com and my username is OrangeSwirl. Check out my profile and if you're interested, let me know either here or there.