I'm going to agree, with caveats, with the two before me. I don't dry clean unless there's an absolute necessity.
Thanks for friends who cosplay and a history with the SCA Inc., I have a lot of
experience with "dry clean" only labels and what they really mean.
What they really mean is ; liability on behalf of the manufacturer of the clothing/fabric. For some fabrics, Dry Clean Only is the safest way to avoid potential damage from people who don't know how to take care of spots and stains, or who don't know how to do laundry and all the steps involved. Pressing, ironing, and knowing how to wash clothing is not something a lot of people bother to learn and so, clothing manufacturers play to that lowest common denominator.
The only things I have professionally cleaned these days are furs, once a year, if I use them, and clothing pieces that can't be replaced - my wedding dress, my husband's letter jacket, a USN
pea coat in wool. Everything else that I can think of gets washed in
water with
soap, rinsed well, and blocked. Or tossed in with the other things and left to fend for itself - it depends on what it is, how it's used, and what it's made out of.
I will spritz the fake fur cloak, lined with wool, with isopropyl alcohol or vodka. I will take silks that I borrowed for a special occasion to the dry cleaners. Otherwise, yeah. Cold water, gentle cycle or by hand, rinse well in more cold water and hang/block.
If I'm sewing fancy stuff for myself, I toss fabric into the washer at whatever setting I think is most probable for it's future life. I have "shocked" fabric by tossing it into hot whites, if I think it's likely that at some point someone will forget and throw it in with things that are washed with
hot water and/or bleach. That way the worst possible has already happened to it and I can freely create a thing without worry.