I let them dry on the stem as well, but then pluck them into a bowl and finish them in a dehydrator. They germinate readily whether you plant them in the fall or wait for spring.
You can make a mustard sauce out of any amount, just adjust the other ingredients to suit your volume. I most typically soak them in brine that's been used for fermenting veggies so that it's rich in lactic acid, but you can use vinegar, then simmer them quite briefly, and gently grind them in a food processor or mortar and pestle. I like a pretty coarse mustard, but you can grind them more if you want a homogeneous sauce. I like to add any of: horseradish
root, black pepper, chiles, sichuanese flower peppercorns, ginger, cumin and corriander, juniper kraut, etc. when blending.