Hi Riley,
I will start by saying that I am not a greenhouse expert, but I can totally understand where you are coming from with your questions. I had so many of the same ones myself. I was researching the best, most sustainable, most effective greenhouses. From heating/cooling, to insulation, to roof pitch, underground or above ground, phase change materials, etc. And it was a ton of fun, and I still want to build one like that, but reality helped me realize most of that stuff was overkill for what I needed.
Don't stop your desire to build the best... but in the meantime, maybe try building a simple one and get used to that first. In my case, I live in Maine, this is a cold climate, and I learned ventilation was a huge problem even here. I would never have thought that.
Again, I don't want to dampen your zeal, but I have seen way too many people spend thousands on a "perfect" greenhouse, and barely use it. I'd rather see someone build something for a few hundred that does 85% of what they want, and actually use it and learn from it.
I would highly suggest two resources from the same person. I have linked to a youtube video below. Skip the tomato part and you will see Eliot describe several VERY simply greenhouses for very little money. Second, I would highly suggest his book "Four Season Harvest". In it, he describes how he grows greens year round in Maine (a zone or two colder than yours) in unheated greenhouses.