Hey Terry -
Listing chemicals may actually be a bit trickier than expected, but I'll do what I can. The problem lies with this ridiculous disorder (it's called a mast cell activation disorder). It's one where I can react to pretty much anything with an allergic reaction (even things that aren't even substances, like stress or temperature changes - it's really wacky). And what I react to can quite literally change between one day and the next - it's not a normal allergic reaction, so normal allergy rules and chemical sensitivity rules don't apply, unfortunately. :-/
So you can imagine what an impact that can have on finding safe materials to use. I would pick one product to use and then a few weeks later I start reacting to it and have to palm it off to someone else. It was so frequent, I rarely choose any pre-made products for anything, now, but instead make things myself. I suspect I may need to do this for preparing walls for clay plaster (which I'll be making myself too), so if anyone has DIY recipes for this sort of thing, it would be the most helpful.
I think it might be best first to give a few examples of what I can use, to get a feel for the care I need to take, perhaps?
These seem to work right now, to give an idea of what level of chemical avoidance I need to try for.
milk paint (purchased)- this is the first product I've used in a few years that actually seems to be not too bad, so far. At least for sections of the house I don't go into much.
organic beeswax
Some natural sap and resins from local plants
glass or ceramics (old tiles seem okay, for example)
clay - if dug out of the ground. I haven't tried purchased clay yet, but all clay plaster brands I've seen so far are no good. Plain purchased clay might be all right, however.
metal (if no coating on it)
some raw, unprocessed oils
animal fats, processed myself
potato starch, if made by myself from potatoes
saponin extracted at home from soapworts
Untreated wood (cannot be treated for termites, either, so can be problematic in my area)
organic, un-dyed natural fibers (rayon is no good, but cotton and
linen are okay. Not sure on some fibers)
could probably have some natural oils infused with anti-bacterial or anti-fungal
native plants, too.
So, as to what is a problem. My reactions seem to trend along certain lines, typically ones that involve a lot of man-made chemicals, but many natural chemicals are not a problem.
1. For 'bad' natural products: neem oil, anything from shea, any essential oils, anything edible based in the grass family (so grain based, or sugar cane, or bamboo).
Hay bales and straw are no good because they can contain some of the edible grasses, although wild grasses, cattails, and reeds are just fine, bizarrely.
2. Anything with ammonia is no good (if it dissipates quickly, I might be able to get someone else to do it for me, possibly)
3. Sulfites, sulfates, or high-sulfur containing products are no good.
4. Almost anything that has an added chemical preservative won't work, although some slightly more natural preservatives seem fine (for example, unbleached salt is okay, metabisulfite is not).
5. Pretty much anything that has added man-made chemicals in it that might off gas. The chemicals often present with plastics, paper, paints, floor waxes, modern cleansers, adhesives, and sealants tend to be especially bad.
That's it in a crumbly, disorganized nutshell, essentially. I don't know if there are any products that I can use out there, to be honest, although if someone knew of a very, very unprocessed product, maybe that would do But like I said, I've been making a lot of my own things these days because I react to so much, so often, that the only way to ensure I don't have major health problems seems to be to make things myself and avoid the frequent 'new' allergic reaction to something (have to mostly avoid other buildings as well, for this. :-/).
So I'm more hoping that someone might have some ideas for what might be needed to prepare the wall that I can make myself.
thanks for the information on the latex paint - I did not know it would peel off, but I can do that, I think! Do you know, Terry, if clay plaster can go straight onto the dry wall or if I need to do a kind of primer prep for that, by any chance?
Thanks again for your help.