re: Trespassers/Idaho....
Wow, whatever happened to the good ol' days? I grew up in Idaho and we used to just shoot em.
Seriously as a child, I remember seeing tons of signs which very clearly stated that "Trespassers will be shot"
One of my families fav places to spend an afternoon was in Yellowstone Park, the part that's in Idaho. In order to get there, we had to cross through a rancher's property (one of the most beautiful places on earth... and as a child, my goal was to grow up to own that ranch...sigh....) The rancher didn't mind, so long as people closed the gate. The gate was one of those barbed wire/post things. Just inside the gate was a grave like mound of stones, complete with wooden marker and
boot toes poking out. On the wooden marker was clearly painted "Here lies the last man who forgot to close the gate". My dad would stop and get out to open the gate, I would jump out and play, quickly pick a few wild flowers to put on the grave. I always felt badly that the person had to die for being so disrespectful and lazy. When I was 10 or 11, I finally said something about it to my family--who in a fit of laughter were more than happy to inform me that there wasn't a body under the stones... and they were surprised that I hadn't noticed that someone put changed the boots every spring
But ya know what??? I NEVER would have left that gate open and I never found it open. Last visited there about 5 years ago... grave was gone. That made me sad... it's kind of part of the Idaho that I really treasured.
Dealing with trespasser's is tough. We've had two "situations" in Washington this year where landowners finally had
enough, lost their tempers and were pretty misbehaved. I suspect both will do jail time, one is an avid hunter, he threatened to shoot some people, I read that if he were to be found guilty of whatever they charged him with, he'll lose the right to possess firearms.
I live remotely, and although I don't hunt, the wildlife is abundant. They are trying to keep it hush-hush, but they removed a bunch of
deer from town last spring (I think 80 head or there abouts), now are getting ready to do an in town hunt to cull them--I believe that the goal is 40 head. During hunting season it's like being invaded by aliens, everywhere you look you see camo, big 4wheelers. People travel from all around to get to my county. That amazes me that they can manage to travel so far and find it as they obviously can't read. They see a sign that says "No Trespassing" and interpret it as the marker for the starting of their private hunting grounds. Because of the location of my property... and the quality of the wildlife that lives there, my problem isn't with the people who have traveled.... it's with the locals! I was told that my property is the "best hunting" in the county!
First year I lived here it was pretty ugly, nearly lost a dog who just happened to be similar in color to a white tail. Had to figure out a way to get along, keep people off... so I decided the best way is to put them in charge and let them make their own decisions about what they want to do
The choice they get to make is how they leave my property--the options are: With the Sheriff or with the coroner. Since it really infuriates me that people walk right by my signs, I can issue these choices in a very meaningful tone of voice. The second year, I started telling people what their choices were, then would let them know that since they obviously didn't mean to trespass (yeah... right), I was going to let them off with just a warning, the one and only time. Word got around town pretty quickly, occasionally I have to give someone the boot off my property, but usually when the find out that I'm that "lady who gives choices", people tend to leave real fast! Because it's a small town and everyone always minds everyone else's business, I used to have to deal with people asking if I was married.... my reply (true confession--I practiced in front of a mirror so I can say it with out laughing): "Yup, but I have to keep my hubby locked up. The last place we lived a bunch of people disappeared and they never found the bodies". Quite honestly, I don't think our sheriff's department would make an arrest based on trespassing.
re: Caregiving... how right you are.. and it can be so exhausting! I don't know your circumstances, but sometimes there are "respite care" programs which can give the caregiver a break 3 or 4 times a year.
re: Exercise... exercise is good. I never worry about it during the winter though. Without fail my pickup will get snowed in, stuck, break down and I will spend a good deal of time snowshoeing and walking. I'm a year older now than last year
but it feels like a whole lot more. I'm hoping I can manage it this year! I figured out once that I spend at least 7 days out of every year with my vehicle stuck in either snow or mud.