Being in Okla also, I am very sympathetic regarding the winter weather that is happening across the country. Sue, I'm sorry to hear you are experiencing damage to your trees & shrubs, it's heartbreaking.
We had a horrific ice storm last Dec. Many trees (Bradford Pear, in particular) ended up looking like someone pushed a giant apple corer/slicer down over the tree tops. I will say that I was surprised how some trees recovered from the damage. Some areas of N.E. Oklahoma were without power for a month. Our pine trees suffered some branch loss, but they survived. Our bradford pear keeled over onto our house, but didn't cause any structural damage. My husband cut off all the branches & left a 6 ft. tall stump. We thought it would die, but all this new growth showed up at the top of the stump, it looked like a totem pole with leaves. My 78 yr old mother lives with us & loves the way it looks, so we didn't have the heart to cut it all the way down. Our cat enjoys climbing it & the mockingbirds like to sit on top of it.
I am originally from the Chicago area (lived there until I was 25) & I had my fill of snow early in life, while I was still a child. We lived near a river basin that was a really fun place to go sledding...if you liked sledding. I just didn't like being cold & wet. I wouldn't even go along if we walked there, only if we drove. As soon as I got wet, I was done & would want someone to start the car so I could get warm while everyone else would just keep on sledding.
I must have been an amphibian or lizard in a former life because I'm always saying that I need my own personal "terrarium" for the winter time. Complete with a sun lamp, hot rock, tropical plants, proper humidity (a hot tub with a fountain or small water fall would be nice

), I'd be able to get thru any winter. LOL!