posted 5 years ago
Something that got to me the other day and wanted to share.
I'm quite overweight and live in a place that get lots of extreme heat in the summer and I love to garden, so it is my habit to plant and tend a wonderful garden until the triple digits get here, then I tend to neglect my garden, because I just can't handle the heat. This year I swore it would be different. My plan was to push myself even when it was hot, to force myself to be more tolerant of the heat, to use cool wet rags and drink ice water ect. My strategy did pay off I was able to work outside all summer long. Don't get me wrong when it's a 105 out you stay in the house, but even on those days I might go out and water ect. the hour before dark, but I made a lot of progress. But (is it just me, or does life always throw a but in there) I discovered hugelkultur and had to build one, well technically two because I wanted to do a little experiment on wood type. Then I got a bunch of wood chips, so I have been using them to make weed free paths and many other things too. So my garden looks like crap! I was looking at it the other day so irritated at myself. Oh I didn't complacently neglect it, but it only got the most basic care. Now it is overgrown, weeds and mint in every path(I haven't gotten wood chips in there yet) the flowers have taken over the veggies are done. I look at that and see neglect, and a ton of work that needs to be done. I'm very angry with myself at this point.
A day or so later my daughter are talking about the pumpkins that are growing on my new hugel and the only veggie doing good right now, and then she said she loves my garden. That stopped my cold, I asked what she meant, and she said she just loves the way it's wild and free. Maybe it's a mom thing, but it made me feel so good! She didn't see a lazy gardener who didn't do enough, she sees life and nature at work.
I won't leave it this way, I will yank weed and put wood chips in the paths, and I need to get the summer veggies out so I can get the fall/winter veggies started, but her simple comment changed my prospective, and I feel a lot better about my wild weed garden.
“We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.” — Abraham Lincoln