Denise, the notice to edit a post is a form thingy that always sounds kind of harsh, especially if it comes on your first post.
I think that I remember your post though and maybe the only problem was that your reply was within the quotes of the post that you were quoting? and that made it unclear.
Anyway, welcome to the forums...we are not at all that scary in general...just that 'edit' notification
Someone from staff will pop in and let you know what's what...I'm just guessing.....
I'll add a link to your post
https://permies.com/t/126844/Homestead-Chronic-Illness#1006027
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