FYI - if the flowers are at the end of a longish straight stalk, they are male. If there's a bulb (roundish if a pumpkin, sort of long oval if something like a zucchini) near the plant stem and the flower bud right at the end of the bulge, it's a female.
There are people who harvest the extra male flowers and dredge and fry them, but that takes more oil than I'm generally willing to use.
Bees generally LOVE squash flowers (I mean, what's *not* to love about big, bright, funnel shaped flowers) so stacking functions by teaching your daughter about pollination would be good
permaculture, as would letting her
pee a few feet away to "fertilize" the plant and not waste useful nitrogen, phosphorus and potassium by sending it down the toilet... OK, maybe I'm getting beyond the "beginner gardener" department, but one never knows when someone will see the light and turn their neighborhood into a food forest jungle!
I had a very happy pumpkin plant one year, grown in mostly horse shit, that produced 11 lovely pumpkins. It was a pie pumpkin, rather than Jack-o-lantern, and it made me a lot of pumpkin pies, muffins, breads, neighborhood connections (yeah, 11 was a few more than I could store long
enough to use - I shared the bounty)