Hello and welcome to Permies!
Looks like you have a pretty nice bit of land there congratulations - gentle slope, nice selection of weeds and trees. Anne gave some good advice. I just have questions!
You want to be self sufficient in vegetables? as much food as possible? Do you plan for livestock (children often love looking after animals)? What age children? What resources do you have or can get hold of easily, to build soil? Water availability and climate make real differences in what designs make sense.
Suggestions: start small, get to know your neighbours and the land this first year and draw out lots of schemes. It may be a small plot for annuals will be enough work for this year particularly if you are new to gardening. Autumn or spring is usually a good time to put fruit trees in, so you could plan towards next year for more permanent/long term planting and/or construction. Anything you can do towards relieving any problems with drainage or compaction will be time well spent - I wish I'd not kept my neighbours sheep, but deep ploughed and sown fodder radish or some such to build soil fertility. But each plot is different and the soil is the key.
These threads may give some food for thought:
long term lessons of food forests
lessons for newbie homesteaders