My suggestion (for next year anyway) is to order a truckload of sand and put a tarp over it (so it doesn't freeze into a giant block of ice itself). Use it on the driveway and steps and then mix any extra into the garden or
compost pile in the spring, or save it for the next year.
Sand is fairly cheap most places. If not, crusher fines should be.
Potassium chloride softener salt is not cheap, but may be cheaper than saf t melt. Or granulated lawn fertilizer.
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