I have plenty of experience with them -- as weeds. Since my neighbors have so many, I don't need any on my property, but the squirrels don't share my plan. They put them in my
hugelkultur, my onion bed, the kitchen herb garden, etc.
You may want to get them out of the 3 gallon pots and put them in the deepest pot you can find. Around here, young pecan
trees are kept in plastic pots that have a height equal to 3 or 4 times their diameter. No, they are not stable and have to be supported to stay upright, but they allow the tap
root to develop properly. Once the tap root develops, you can't kill the seedling, it keeps coming back (from my experience).
I would say plant them in a clay soil. They
love the Georgia clay and when you get to the western extent of their range, in the arid west, they still flourish in river valleys with lots of clay in the river bed. Pecans (and walnuts, a close relative) are sensitive to late frosts. Usually, they are the last trees to leaf out in the spring, when the danger of frost is well past. As long as you don't have any late freezes, like can happen in higher elevations, they
should do well for you.