How about remodeling the single wide? adding some thermal mass on the south , insulating the north, maybe extend the eaves for southern passive
solar and a northern carport/porch? Or a nice earthen plaster inside with some built in wood working and exterior rough sawn cedar . Or a nice little indoor/outdoor addition? Or smaller detached (studio/cottage/workshop)? Not seemingly as glamorous, but might be the quicker, cheaper, more sustainable option that will have y'all living in a construction zone the least, and still give you a nice project/space.
Or go for a full blown build--just bounce some build ideas off the forum
Since you talked about earthships ,How about renting/hiring a machine for a possibly quick, thermal, sheltered /berm house (post and beam, wofati, spray, psp, quonset, RE, mafia block, whatever walls).I've been in one there that was nice temp year round.
What area of ne tx? How far to transport rice hulls where you're at? They seem like an interesting bag fill material, quick and easy. I bet stretching some fencing and hardware cloth around a post and beam --Jay, can we start abbreviating that as p&b?--or rough sawn framed cavity, and filing with hulls will be quick , flat, stretched prepped surface to plaster (rapidobe style).
I'll talk to your husband behind your back, Cyndy. I like building with little budget and local materials. A little creativity and constructionknowledge and resourcefulness can build some interesting, sustainable, beautiful homes .from quite little.
Chris