I didn't really seek out the friends that I have good relationships with, it just kinda happened. Maybe people can just tell who resonates on the same frequency as them. Because I just was going about my life, i think, and somehow I met other kind gentle souls to be around. I know this isn't quite helpful, but I think we just attract other people like us when we don't actively seek others out and just let stuff happen. And having these good relationships, making a support network, seems very permaculture to me, as I have many shoulders to lean on, instead of just one. And I don't honestly feel that much of a need/desire to have "the one", because I have multiple friends fulfilling the different functions of a lover.