and one more addendum:
I want to thank both Paul and Geoff for all the work they do to get this information out there where lots of people can learn about it. I do feel in both cases that self-promotion or fame tactics are a vehicle for effective sharing of information; they are motivated primarily by the work, and tolerate fame as a means to worthy ends.
Paul has been a tireless supporter of our own work, and I can state from personal experience that he does not care, at all, whether he puts me or Ernie in front of the camera. Paul loves to share insights, and the ones that come with physical evidence that can be on camera are much easier to share.
Ernie and I usually share the limelight, but we don't mind either - if I want to do video with Paul, Ernie will often be in the kitchen making dinner. And then I make pie afterwards. It's a beautiful collaboration.
(I wonder if part of the bias is that women often work more with people than with objects, which makes the transformations they work in a community somewhat harder to catch on video?
Maybe someone who loves social dynamics could take on a 'before' and 'after' documentary in a dysfunctional intentional community, to document the difference a particular female mediator or mentor contributes to their planning process and productivity.)
But the fundamental point that many Americans miss is that we don't have to 'beat' the 'other side' to 'get ahead.' It's not men vs women, or feminists vs. chauvinists.
It's a question of how do we, humanity, move forward in all our diverse identities and talents, to make a world in which we can thrive alongside abundant life on Earth. That world should definitely include space for women who want to stay home, and women who like to travel - for men who are loving farmers, and men who are famous speakers. There is little to be gained by trying to 'eliminate' someone else's behavior.
Here's the problem:
We literally control most of life on earth - or at least, most of the life-forms that we identify with, that have ears and legs and so on.
We control a lot of the other kinds too, whether intentionally or by accident.
What we do matters.
Knowing how to handle that kind of responsibility is not easy.
Real cattle, elephants, etc. are not square.
(If you think about the parable of the lilies in the pond, with exponential growth of many processes, this picture may be 4 pm on the afternoon of the last day before the world has nothing left outside our control.)
So thanks to everyone who's out there building bricks for a better world, testing and finding local approaches that actually work.
And thanks to Paul and Geoff for sharing and promoting not just their personal bricks, but their sources of inspiration.
-Erica