Regarding bladdernuts being hard: Me and the partner went to this arboretum last fall, where they had a hybrid bladdernut. I think it was Staphylea pinnata x colchica, but not 100%. Anyway, since I have some S. pinnata seeds stratifying in the fridge, I was interested to see what the seeds of the hybrid tasted like. I picked a "bladder" and opened it. The seeds were tiny, probably less than half of the size of S. pinnata. I thought something like "well, not much seed inside this", assuming the shell was as thick as the ones I'd seen before, but experimentally I bit it anyway. The shell was
thin! You could eat them without shelling, the shell just gave some interesting crunch, and the taste was super sweet and nice. Might be worth thinking about.
Also, I read in a Swedish book about forest
gardening that you can get around the problem of the shell on S. pinnata by harvesting them unripe, around August. They say that it tastes somewhat like green peas.