posted 3 hours ago
Hi Timothy,
You have opened a fascinating topic. In my area of work, these are called “non-negotiables”. … those little routines we have in life that makes life normal for us. It was found that behavioral issues in residential facilities of all kinds were virtually eliminated when non-negotiables were honored.
I must have 2 cups of coffee in the morning. Now, let’s say my normal cup is 8oz. Don’t try to cheat me by giving me one 16 oz cup of coffee. BUT I will gladly accept two 6oz cups. You see, it is the number of cups … not the total volume.
If there is one thing the Wizard of Oz has taught me, it is not to trust school teachers on bicycles.