I'm in my 40s and have dealt with chronic pain for essentially my whole adult life. A sports related knee injury when I was a teenager that left me with recurring pain, an unstable knee, and an inability to do any kind of percussive sport. It's been really limiting at times, but I have just adjusted and quietly got on with things.
Every now and again something goes wrong. 18 months ago something "clicked" in the knee while I was walking around and work and it totally locked up. I was completely unable to weight bear, and in a huge amount of pain. I tried to carry on as normal but buckled when someone at work asked me how I was getting on - all the pain came to the fore and started crying in to my lunch. My boss sent me home and I had 3 full weeks off my feet, then a slow recovery back to mobility. I felt like I was on a path to decrepitude, frailty, and an early knee replacement.
Eventually things got back to "normal" and I got back in my groove.
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Skip forward to this summer. My 7yo son is now hooked on skateboarding. I'm spending hours each week sitting beside skateparks simultaneously bored and frustrated that I can't join in. So a picked up a board and all the pads for myself and immediately discovered that my knee stability is simply not good
enough. Some folks suggested I see a physio and I took time to shop around based on recommendations, having had disappointing experiences in the past.
Upshot of all this
1) He did a thorough assessment of all my various aches and pains and weaknesses.
2) He showed me specific strength issues - like I was completely unable to stand from a chair without either using my hands, or rocking to build momentum.
3) He convinced me that I had misunderstood the
root cause of my pain. I felt it was muscle tightness, combined with structural issues in the knee. He showed me it was muscle weakness.
4) He gave me some super simple exercises to build strength in some specific places (ie stand-to-sit/sit-to-stand from a chair).
I'm now 10 weeks in and the transformation is remarkable. My knee is stable and strong. The internal swelling after exercise has essentially gone. I'm having a blast skateboarding every weekend, and building both strength and technique. I never skated as a kid, so it's quite a learning curve. I'm still bad, but having a blast. This week he said I'm well on the way to being signed off and not needing to see him.
Why the post?
My pain and limitations had crept up on me. At no point had I consciously crossed a point where I considered myself "disabled" but I was always considering the state of my knee when planning stuff. I had doubted that physio would be able to fix me, but I had hoped for some improvement. The end result has exceeded my expectations.
The key was something he said at the very first session. "90% of the patients I see don't do the exercises. They are the ones that don't improve. If you do them, you WILL see improvements." I took him at his word and did them seriously for the first two weeks. And he was right. I've eased off a bit since then - the skating has filled that gap reasonably well.
Anyway - if you are limited by physical pain, do consider seeing a physiotherapist, but shop around for one who has good recommendations. Oh, and skateboarding is super fun. Even as an unfit, overweight, slightly broken, 43 year old.