Hello there,
My boyfriend and I are a young couple in a long-distance relationship, as he lives in Italy and I'm from the Netherlands (we still live in our parental homes). We're looking forward to living together, but for now that comes down to finding a WAY to live together.
A little irrelevant, and for now merely hypothetical, but still important background information to share: I have little perspective on a stable future with a regular job, because I have no degree after high school (there's a reason for this, but endless story). In fact, I can apply only for jobs such as in a restaurant, coffeehouse or shop, and with that income I could maybe live in a humble apartment... There isn't really more out there for me.
Currently, I also work
online and am setting up my own business, but this is quite challenging and doesn't allow me to count on a regular income. Which means I can forget about renting an apartment, let alone buying a home (essentially everything the bank comes into the picture with). In other words, I would need an (uneducated) job with a paycheck. But that's not where it ends. Even more complicated is that either my boyfriend or I have to emigrate to live together, but it will be hard or impossible (especially in the short term) to find a job in each other's country (language is the main issue, but in my own case also low education). One of us (the one who stays in their own country) being responsible for all the money and payments is not what we want, not to mention its unlikely achievability.
We've been thinking and have done research about options for alternative living. Although the financial aspect plays a major role, this idea isn't merely based on reducing costs. I've always missed a closer connection to nature in my life and would love to live in and
experience the countryside, or at least somewhere greener than an urban area. Last but not least,
permaculture would give me the chance to reciprocate my environmental concerns. I don't want to live in the countryside only to satisfy my 'visual
greed'; I'm actually willing to work and live in harmony with nature. I know it's very different from the life I and my boyfriend have experienced so far, and that's also why I think it's important to take small steps and not immediately take the plunge, so we can see how it goes for us...
We've actually discovered a plethora of options for alternative living - from tiny houses to yurts - which is in principle off-grid (in our understanding). At this point, most ideal to us seems living in an earthbag house.
Now here comes the dread. One of the reasons we would want to live in an earthbag house is because we're against the modern economy, consumerism, unsustainable practices, etc. We're both people that would really want to live and work alternatively. We have our very own thoughts about it and I'm quite adamant that there must be a way to make this work.
However, we have no clue how to find a plot for our earthbag house, if we really decide to do it. The criterion is NO
MORTGAGE, otherwise this plan wouldn't make much sense to us. How is this going to work? Is it viable in Europe (anywhere), do you know about any regions? I mean, we would obviously need some sort of planning permission. Not a chance, but certainty. If such plot is going to cost about $50,000 (converted to USD), well, we don't have that... I've also seen plots (in Europe, like Wales) that are $3,000 to $10,000. This would be a lot more realistic and eventually possible! However, do such plots have the potential to be sold with planning permission for an earthbag house? What are we supposed to count on? We would really like to hear from anyone who can tell us something about our chances in Europe. At this point, I already know that we won't have any chance in the Netherlands, my home country. The building codes here are too restrictive, which also makes sense when a country is so densely populated and there's not much countryside to speak of. My boyfriend's home country, Italy, might be a better bet. We also consider moving elsewhere, like the UK. I'm just upset that bureaucracy seems to destroy ANY idea we have. How sad is that if you're just trying to do what actually matters to our planet... All the information we find about building and permission give no clues, it's all vague and ambiguous. Is there anything more to know than "It depends"?
By the way, if it's not possible in any way, we don't necessarily have to own the
land ourselves. We just need a piece of land with the guarantee that we can build and live there.
I was also wondering whether there are any European municipalities that exist merely of ecohouses (such as earthbag houses)? An ecovillage where you can build your own home, for example. This would also protect us from (social) isolation (not that we're not used to it, but still a good thing).
In addition to that, I think it might be wise to prepare and follow a course or
workshop about earthbag construction (and
permaculture), or even attend a
volunteer project if that's possible without any relevant experience. But these concepts are virtually unheard of and unpracticed in the Netherlands. I literally don't know where to start...
I'm looking forward to responses - thank you very much, as it's really appreciated.