but it might be because everyone is following their own dreams and homesteads, and getting in a relationship often means leaving their homestead for another's. Anyway, just so you know, it's not just you that it seems this is happening to!
If I'd had more time, I would have written a shorter letter. -T.S. Eliot such a short, tiny ad:
September-October Homestead Skills Jamboree 2019https://permies.com/wiki/118704/permaculture-projects/September-October-Homestead-Skills-Jamboree